Michelle - posted on 07/21/2014 ( no moms have responded yet )
im 38 years old and a single mom of 2 and also pregnant by the same father. I don't know what to do. I want the baby and so do my other kids, but it is hard enough with 2 kids little alone 3 kids. The father of all 3 has been in and out of the older boys life and now he wants in. He does not try to find a job, support himself or even us. We have been divorced since 2008 and I was stupid on this past new years and got drunk and now pregnant. He wines when he don't get his way, he wants me to support him, he makes excuses all the time and lies most of the time. Everyone has told me to get away from him, but I feel he should man up and be a father to the boys and the one on the way. I have no help from family or don't have any friends. What should I do about him and the new baby on the way and also doing this all on my own. If someone could help me I would appreciated it.