pregnant advise

Jackie - posted on 09/15/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )

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hi,im 43 and 5 weeks pregnant SHOCK... l suffer from ms, l ihave had 4 kids all grown up now. a part of me wants this baby and a part of me says no... what happens after i give birth i will relapse i dont know how bad but i could drop baby or anything, maybe i wont be able and strong enough to feed or look after it,my kids have all left home now, the doctors say i got 50/50 charance of miss carrying. if i abort ill have a relaspe if i have it ill relaspe wot do i do. very confused, i know my health aint good and it wouldnt be fair on the baby.

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Dove - posted on 09/15/2012

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Personally I think you were given this baby for a reason. Now, I have no way of know WHAT that reason is, but I couldn't even consider abortion.



Your post says... if you get an abortion you'll relapse and if you have the baby you'll relapse. Are you asking those things? Or stating them?



Personally speaking.... I'd leave it in God's hands, continue with the pregnancy, and see what happens, but I'm not you and won't tell YOU what you should or should not do.



Good luck with it all!

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Jackie - posted on 09/15/2012

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thank you for the reply love. i know the best thing to do is have a tremination.but i cant help thinking it happened for a reason.yes ive had kids, i now live my life to the max going out clubbing drinking etc, is it a sign to say slow down thinking ur a teenageer, or to make me think i dont know. im so totally confused.

Lacye - posted on 09/15/2012

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Even though I am very pro-life, if it was me I would have an abortion. You have some pretty bad health problems not counting the health problems your child could have if you go through with it. You being 43 years old, you will have a huge risk of having a Down Syndrome child and it would not be very fair to either of you if you are not able to take care of it properly. I'm not saying you should because let's get real, you could be an awesome parent to this child. But You do need to think of all of the factors that goes with this sort of thing. I'm so sorry that you have to face this sort of thing and I hope you do what's best for you and your family.

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