Pregnant & Alone

Curly - posted on 07/17/2015 ( 9 moms have responded )

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I'm 22 and pregnant and alone. My child's father has been non existent since I've been pregnant, well we went out a couple of times just out to eat and stuff. But he choked me when I was around 3 months in a parking lot (long story). Luckily someone called the police and now he blames me for having charges on his record. His parents hate me and want him to have nothing to do with me and my dad dislikes him A LOT for what he's done to me. Im 7 months pregnant and I've went to every doctor's appointment alone. Im so ashamed that I'm in this situation. I had a miscarriage before and he still tried to get me to get an abortion with my baby boy now. We dated for 3 years and I've never seen him act this way. He blocked me on everything too. Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, even his phone. He can only contact me, I can't call him and I'm sick of it. I'm just so mad and I needed to vent because I put on a front and act like everything is okay but I'm all alone with no support and it's so embarrassing and depressing :(

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Selena - posted on 07/20/2015

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Im sorry to hear what's happening to you and all i can say is be strong and think about your baby he or she is going to need a strong and independent mother and father from you if the dad doesn't want nothing to do with yall that's his loss it going to be hard but trust me when you see your baby you're going to forget about him

Savannah - posted on 07/20/2015

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I do not have any good advice. I'm just so very sorry you are in this position.

Sarah - posted on 07/18/2015

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If he wants no part of this baby's life that is very sad. However, he is financially obligated to support the child for the next 18 years so file for child support ASAP.

Sarah - posted on 07/18/2015

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If he wants no part of this baby's life that is very sad. However, he is financially obligated to support the child for the next 18 years so file for child support ASAP.

Laura - posted on 07/18/2015

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Hi I'm so sorry for the way he has treated you I don't like the percentage of women that go through this and sometimes alone. I have been there I know what it's like. You need to cherish and take care of that baby. Do not give that man any slack when it come to him helping you care for baby. I have raised 11 and 13 year old one with cancer on my own it's hard make that man do what he's suppose to and if your smart stay away from men all together most are assholes.

Patricia - posted on 07/17/2015

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Thank you hun just pls enjoy your pregnancy it is 1 of the precious moments in a women's life. M hoping to conceive soon and can't wait to hear my baby's first cry I knw it sounds crazy and desperate but the truth is I am desperate and having a baby is the only thing that will help me heal

Curly - posted on 07/17/2015

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I'm so sorry.

I've been there. It was the most painful thing I've ever been through. It took me forever to come to terms. Time is the only thing that will help, and don't listen to those people that constantly say, "oh it's okay, everything happens for a reason" OMG that would REALLY piss me off. Do what ever you need to do to feel better. I wrote a lot of poetry to help me cope. Take how ever long you need to grieve for your baby. I wish you blessings. ♥

Patricia - posted on 07/17/2015

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I knw how you feel dear but just hang in there and try to create a bond with your baby . I was in your situation ended up loosing my unborn last Saturday ryt now M feeling so lonely,lost and hating myself for what happened just wish I could get pregnant now

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