Krystal - posted on 09/26/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )
Hi there! So I joined because I really need some advice. I'm 12 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend, the baby's father, is deployed for another 5 months. When he gets back to the US he has training for 3 months in FL. Currently I am in Ohio. He wants me to come down to FL to have the baby- at 7 months pregnant up and move everything so he can be there for the birth. Then after his training he has another 2 week training in another state..and then will get stationed at yet another state. What am I suppose to do? Follow him state to state in my third trimester and then when the baby is only weeks old??? Being only a girlfriend and not a wife, I'm not given any benefits and he doesn't want to marry me. He did not want me to have this baby. Now that he has "accepted" it he is very excited. Only now I am not excited because he continues to say "You wanted this, now deal with it"....