Miriam - posted on 05/11/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )
I was seeing a police officer for 8mths. I thought it was serious between him and I until I found out im 1 mth pregnant by his child and the whole time we were together, he was already living with someone in a 3 year relationship and was lying to me this whole time. Now that I am pregnant, he is telling me that his heart is for this other girl. So his priority has been her throughout the pregnancy not me. I am super emotionally stressed out and I have asked the girl to please stop interfering and let us form a family. He said we r a family meaning me him and unborn child, but this 25 yr old girl is still involved and it is stressing me out to the point where its affecting my health and putting a danger to the pregnancy because of all the emotional stress. Is there a way I can serve her papers to get her out of the way so she is not involved when this baby is born?also is there a way I can already serve him joint visitation rights and not full?I dont trust him. I have no support from him and his priority is her. He is making my pregnancy full of stress and heartache and unhealthy. he is trying to intimidate me because he says hes a cop and knows the law. He says he has rights to doctors visits during the pregnancy but how can I have him involved in the pregnancy visits if he is emotionally stressing me out by seeing me and seeing this other girl. I am so stressed and im afraid I can misscarry if this continues.