Pregnant & Depressed

Devil In The Blue Dress - posted on 11/02/2013 ( no moms have responded yet )

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Me & my baby's father were just dating when I got pregnant. When I first told him he freaked out and didn't call me for four days, I didn't want to push so I waited then he said he wanted the baby. The next month he went with me to my doctors visit and was their for our first sonogram. We then spent the whole day together, I thought he was ready for a relationship & was so happy I was going to have my little family. On Our next visit he didn't show said his car broke down, the third visit he text me he was hungover from the previous night. We then spoke i told him i was in love with him. he said he liked me but was having a hard time showing it. A month ago he said he was thinking & doesn't want to be with me that he doesn't feel an desire or connection with me. even told me his ex was more passionate. said that it was just sex when we conceived that he didn't make this baby with love. he said he will be there when his son comes. I feel so hurt & i told him so he then said i was being immature. I'm feeling resentful and want to be able to count on him but its hard when he's basically pushing us away. I feel needy and sexually frustrated. We have been apart for a little over a month. I am now 4months pregnant what can I say or do to help him realize I need him to be more involved? We are both first time parents. Please any suggestions

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