Niki - posted on 02/13/2014 ( no moms have responded yet )
I need some advice! And no rude comments! Already stressed well beyond needs be! So I met married man 5 weeks ago! He told me he was single and we hit it off! I ended up sleeping with him. And I liked him! Well things are going great for a week! Til he calls me up and says I'm still married and my wife and I are going to work things out! So my friend said let's go out to get your mind off of it! So I meet this guy (rapist) and he was funny and handsome, graduate student he told me, studying criminal psychology! We exchanged phone numbers and I decided to go on a date with him 2 days later! Long story short, he threaten to beat, slap, hit punch me! He has a criminal record with sex assault in his past! He trapped me into a room! And made me have sex with him by threaten me! I went to the hospital straight after the assault, to do a code r! That was a month ago! The ultrasound shows I'm measuring 5 weeks which would be married man! My hcg levels also say 5 weeks along. To back up, married man calls me one week after I was raped to tell me I'm so sorry I made a mistake! My wife and I arent staying together she has a bf now. Wanting me to give him another chance! I am filing for divorce! And I trust him, we haven't slept together since that night! Sex freaks me out now! As you can all imagine! Well the flip just happened again! He is back with her! And saying I'm making this all up , to get back with him! And had me crying over the mean crap he said! my friends say to just ignore married man and they will support me no matter what! They say married man will flip once again and do this to me my whole pregnancy if I let him! My dr says it is married mans baby! Cause from the utlrasound and blood work! There is only 8 days from married man and rapist! Is there a way it could be rapist child? My friend says it could be! So I'm scared! Wanting to know how u would handle this situation? With the married guy? Rapist?