Will - posted on 08/26/2013 ( no moms have responded yet )
My pregnant wife has left our new home , me and the country while 4 month's pregnant with our son. I freaking out. This is so hard. I know in my heart that I tried to be the best man in could be for this woman in truly do not know what more I could have done. Incant believe that someone could be so cold hearted to just leave the country with another persons child inside of them. We have only spoken about 3 times in the last month since she has left. And it every way possible she is trying to manipulate me to move to Canada. But I also just bought us a new house and got a dream job here. My wife never needed to work she never needed to do anything. This all started because she wanted to go back to school while being pregnant in Canada and try to finish her degree. I thought that just having a baby is hard enough that trying to get a job and start and finish school while torwards the end of your pregnancy is not a healthy decision and would and so much unneeded stress to her and the baby. She labeled me as unsupportive and packed up everything she owned and had a friend fly down here . and they drove back to Canada. I know nothing about her current liviny situatiot or what is going on only that she tries to guilt trip me to get money out of me and now she just accuses me of cheating on her all the time. None of which is true! I am so lost and devastated I can hardly sleep I have constant anxiety I always feel sick to my stomach. When I do sleep I have horrific nightmares. My wife is also a social worker by trade so the fact that she could do this to her own husband and also jeopardizr her sons future as well just makes me sick. I have started going to church again praying to god asking him to please make her aware of what she has done to please open her eyes so she can see the mistake she has made. I just don't know where to turn anymlre or what to do. I just keep hoping she will think of our family and come to her senses and realize what she has done.