pregnant with 2nd baby and confused

Kimberly - posted on 10/28/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )




i need advise please! i already have a 4 year old boy whom i had out of wedlock (with my ex boyfriend) and he is my pride and joy meanwhile i just got married in may and i just found out im pregnant with my second child with my husband. Im having a hard time with it just because my husband and i are going through some maritial problems and im not too sure if its going to last between us (because of how i feel towards him) so im really scared to have his child because one i dont know if i can love another baby as much as i love my son and esp. it being with another guy. its really stressful and confusing if anyone has any advise id am open for anything thank you so much!!!


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Jessica - posted on 10/29/2012




Each child is a part of you and if you want to you will love all your children equally. I have 2 kids from my ex, and they are diffrent but i could never live my life without both of them, even though i dislike their father. As far as your marriage try Counseling. I had this issue while pregnant with my youngest. I HATED their father and i would do anything to keep him from touching me or coming near me, even the sound of his voice made we want to claw out my eyes. But i thought about it and i decided i wanted ot make the relationship work. Sometimes a relationship is WORK but both parties have to want it to work. But dont stay together for the children. Its better that everyones happy rather than the child seeing everyone miserable. But no matter who the father of the child is you should still be able to love them for them!

Michelle - posted on 10/28/2012




I assure you, you will love the new baby just as much as your older son. I have 3 children (1st 2 from my first husband, 3rd from my 2nd husband) and all 3 of them are my pride and joy. They all have different personalities and I can see myself in each of them.

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