Pregnant with a man I don't want to be with!

Anna - posted on 02/19/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )




Please could you offer some advice as I'm going round and round in circles?! I'm a 42 yr single mum with a 7yr old daughter from my last marriage. I've been with a man who suffers from bipolar for the last 2yrs, and the relationship is not going well. Whilst having some time apart, (again,) I found out I was pregnant and am devastated, as really not sure I want to continue with this relationship even though we are going to counselling. I know no one can tell me what to do but I would really love another child, and know because of my age this may be my last chance. But really unsure wether it's the right thing for everyone to have this baby, and am struggling to know if I will cope alone again, but not sure wether I can live with myself not having a child I so long for?!


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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 02/19/2014




Is he going to be willing to support the child? I'm not a fan of abortion, but you have to do what's right for your situation. If you don't feel your relationship is working, but you want to keep the baby, then I guess I'd make sure that he's going to support that, and if not, start paperwork for paternity as soon as the kid is born...

Shatika - posted on 02/19/2014




Have the baby...its on you ...him later...I hope.things work out for you..

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