Roxanne - posted on 09/19/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )
Hi there guys,
I am in a bit of a pickle. I am married, 28 and the mother of a beautiful 2 1/2 year old girl. My husband has been very open and honest about not wanting another one, even though I do. We recently found out taht I am pregnant, and Hubby does not want it. He is infact advocating for an abortion. I cannot fathom terminating teh pegnancy, especially because I am already amother. I feel like if I can do that I can put a gun to my little girls head and pull the trigger. I am devastated. I feel liek tehr eare no good ways that this will end. Either I will haev eth baby and he will alnd up resenting me and the baby, Or he will leave us. Or I will terminte and land up hating and resenting him for making me do it.
Has anyone else been in a situation like this?He has agreed to a councellor, but honestly I dont think it will make him see things my way.