Shannon - posted on 06/17/2016 ( 1 mom has responded )
Hello Mommies, I am desperately needing support right now. Long story and many recent life changes; recent move to new town, new home, new job. Don't know anyone in current town. I have a 4 year old boy (love of my life) and am 6 months pregnant with twins after embryo adoption. Marriage has been unraveling, but with all the recent upheaval it happened much faster than I anticipated. My husband and I are about to file for divorce. There is no way to salvage the relationship. My 3 big deal breakers are: 1) He has not worked in the 6+ years we have been together. This is while I finished med school, residency and had a baby in residency; 2) He is an alcoholic; and 3) He is verbally abusive. He constantly criticizes EVERYTHING I do. I believe he gaslights me too. Makes me think I am the cause of the problems. This has been such a difficult, emotional time. I am terrified for the future and about being able to provide emotionally and financially for my babies. Anyone go through this and make it to the other side? Advice, prayers and virtual hugs appreciated!!!!