Jenny - posted on 05/19/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )
I need some advice. I am having difficulty talking to my husband about having more kids. Initially, we decided we wanted to have 2 kids, but with our 3-year-old son being developmentally disabled (he's catching up), some health problems in our family (I had gallbladder surgery last year and we almost lost my grandfather), and helping to financially support my mom, my husband is now rethinking what he wants to do. My husband has a good job and we are doing ok financially, but my husband is scared about last year repeating itself. I am so ready to have another kid and don't want to wait much longer. So far the discussions we have had on this subject have been more about what my husband wants and because he wants to wait, we have waited. Now whenever I bring up the subject, all I get is "we have been through this before and we'll talk about it again by our next anniversary (January 13)." Sometimes I am an emotional wreck because I don't know how to talk to him about this. Any suggestions would be appreciated, thanks.