Problem with sister in law

Rachael - posted on 05/15/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )

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My partners sister hates me! Once my first daughter was born she started getting nasty and texting with with abuse and calling me and harrasing me. Eventually i had to go to the police and had to change my number. Recently she has gotten back in with the family and i have had to be in the same room as her. I try to ignore her but it makes me feel really uncomfortable. Im starting to feel depressed again because of the whole situation. Is it fair if i refuse to be around her? This means i will miss out on other family occasions. I need some advice on how to handle this situation.

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Rachael - posted on 05/16/2012

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It all started about 3yrs ago she threatened me and my child also played around with my car a couple of times. She put rotten meat in my car, poo on the air ventilators and a rude sticker on the back. We pnly allow contact because my partner wants to see his neice and nephew and have our children now them. He wasnt allowed to see them all that time because he defended me. Apparently the children started asking to see us as they got older and she also started seeing other family members again as well. I dont think she is sorry for what she did as she still gives me evil looks whenever im in the room. I still get a bad vibe from her and dont want anything to escalate as i beleive she is very unstable.

Leslie - posted on 05/16/2012

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I dnt think you should avoid her completely , you cnt be scared to be around her all time. And if she dnt like you she needs to get over it, you have a child with your husband now, she needs to grow up and leave you alone. By the way have you told your husband about how deeply you feel about all of this. He needs to set her straight thats his sister and your the mother of his child, so he needs to talk to her and tell her to quit all of this BS. So my answer is dnt run away from her/problem ,you and your husband need to put a stop to her, as a team it probably would help a lot more than you trying to put a stop to it yourself. Btw how long has this been going on?

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