Kerrie - posted on 12/31/2015 ( no moms have responded yet )
I have been with my fiance for 4 years. He has been divorced for 10 and he shares a son. His son is now 12. At first hus ex wife was so sweet and kind to me. She got to know me because she is at every family event and holiday with my fiance's family. She is best friends with his mom. This felt odd to me but I went along with it. NOW 4 years later and an upcoming wedding, it is making me so angry! But what's worse.....my fiance thinks I am the one "making it all about me" even though they celebrated Christmas Eve together and Christmas day. Without me. I thought things would change when he proposed. Last fathers day i was not invited to his dads for dinner but she showed up with her parents and joined them. His family pland birthday parties with her and exclude me from everything. It is really hurtful. She also goes to church with him and his mom and asked if i wouldnt go because it makes her uncomfortable. She also texts him constantly. I have tried several time way above and beyond to be a part of their family. But its almost like they all want me to know where her place is. I think she secretly loves this and loves being with him without me. I m worried because whats worse than having a fiance that does this....is having a husband that does this. He claims its all for his son. But his son is old enough to understand what a divorce is. Does anyone else out their have a man and his x like this??