Rasing daughters

Rebecca - posted on 11/26/2017 ( 6 moms have responded )

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Hello, I am a mom of 2 girls and I am unsure at what age spanking becomes an inapporpiate punishment. My one daughter is 10 and the other is 12. I was raised being spanked and I firmly believe this is the best course for modifying behavior. However, i usually spank with no bottoms (rarely but sometimes even with no clothes at all). My concern is whether spanking bare bottom or nude is not the right course of action considering my 12 year old is "going through changes". This is a serious post so no trollers please..only serious responses!..other mom's feel free to message me!

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Sarah - posted on 11/27/2017

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Your two threads are so contradictory. One you worry about giving your kids the freedom to masturbate and the other how you should spank? Makes no sense to me at all...ar eyou surprised your SS masturbated and ejaculated on your own child if you actually spank your fully nude? How is she to learn what is safe and what is not safe? She can't say no to a bare body spanking so why would she say no to being used to masturbate upon? Think about the hypocrisy of what you are doing!

Michelle - posted on 11/26/2017

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I have never bare bottom spanked and I haven't laid a finger on my children since they were around 2.
I have very respectful and polite teenage boys and a 7yo girl that knows the rules and very rarely pushes the boundaries.

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Rebecca - posted on 11/27/2017

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I really appreciate your input Sarah. I have not always made the right decsions and contribute to the behavior. I have made many mistakes. I grew up in a sort of abusive family and would never want that for my kids. I will alter my behavior in order to curb theres Your insight is very clear on spanking. I was hoping though Sarah you can reply to my other post and the lastest comment I made about masturbatiob and the questions i posed in good detail and then I will apply your advice into practice. Thanks Sarah I really need someone with clarity to help me

Sarah - posted on 11/26/2017

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You will get the feedback you are looking for in the pro-spanker community. I find the majority of mothers in this community agree that spanking is ineffective. They are your kids so you may discipline as you choose, but if it worked; would you have to repeat it?

Rebecca - posted on 11/26/2017

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- Michelle Waldbillig

Thanks for your input and insight. A new discipline method may be more effective and something I will strongly consider. I wanted mainly to get advice on spanking bare bottom or without any clothes however and what age is it too inappropriate. I have friends that spank as well and i want to be able to share with them what is proper. I have a friend that is still bare bottom spanking her 17 and 16 year old daughters? I just want to get a better idea on correct boundaries so I can spread the message! Also have you ever spanked your kids bare bottom?

Michelle - posted on 11/26/2017

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If you are still "having to spank" a 10 and 12yo then you might want to think about different forms of punishment as it isn't working.
In my opinion, spanking past the age of 3 or 4 isn't acceptable. Once you can talk and reason with a child then you need them to understand what they are doing wrong. Not just spank them and hope they change.
You need to change the behaviour and get them to respect your rules. Spanking doesn't teach them respect at all, it instills fear in your children and that's not the best way to raise well balanced adults.

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