Real Teen Mother Story.

Danielle - posted on 05/20/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )

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This Is my Long Story Short. I got pregnant at the age of 18. had my daughter at 19. ever since i had my daughter i watched 16 & pregnant, teen mom, TM2,TM3, i didnt know i was pregnant. i watched them ALL! Me and my daughters father met when he was 16 and i was 18. there has been struggles. switching from his parents house to my moms house to my cousins house and my sisters house to our own place. we have struggled big time as teen parents. she is now 4 years old and we are still together. not married yet but live the married life. my family tells me i am lucky and i feel it because there is noone out there who "baby daddy" stays with the mom through thick and thin like us. i mean theres catelynn and tyler. they are my role model. i love them. i feel like them sometimes. but i watch every episode of 16 and pregnant and TM,TM2,TM3. and none of them are like me or catelynn or mackenzie. we are lucky i see it as that. our lives was full of drama and now its drama free. i just want to share my story because if you look around, there arent any couples who are with their babies father. all my friends have kids with other guys. my best friend is dating my brother and has a kid with him. my other best friend who is her sister is my daughters god mother and doesnt have kids. my other friend has 3 kids with 2 different guys and is with another guy. i never want to be like that so i am lucky i have my daughters father because i dont want it to be any other way. kids wants thier parents to be together do they not? i still wish my mom and dad were together i mean they are still married but they are seperated... have been for 18 years...

no matter where you go there will be drama and kids having kids. its the world we live in. i just wanted to share my story. its not good to have kids as a teenager. you lose your life. you lose wanting to party and drink at 21. everyone i know got drunk at 21. when i turned 21 i spent it with my daughter and her father. i dont see the need to want to drink. or smoke or do drugs.. what is the big deal????

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Danielle - posted on 05/20/2014

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actually no. i am friends with them. just because i dont want to end up like them doesnt mean im not friends with them. i made this post to share my story on how not everyone ends up with thier babies father. its sad that its like that because alot of us teen girls want our kids to have their father in their lives. most doesnt happen. people keep telling me im lucky because any guy who get a girl pregnant at the age of 16 would up and leave and he never did. it just goes to show that i am lucky i guess....

i do help others who are in my shoes. and thanks good luck to you too.

Laniqua - posted on 05/20/2014

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having kids doesn't make your life over. if your a teen it may slow the process of school and other things your tying to do. especially if there is no support system, it sounds like your not even friends with them stating how you don't want to end up like them and etc. it just sound like your bragging instead of trying to help someone who is in your shoes as far as being a teen mom. good luck with everything.

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