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Shatika - posted on 02/22/2014 ( 6 moms have responded )

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Would u be worried about ex/baby mother .from 18years ago.... well some people can be friends.... I'm not the kind of women to be friends with ex /babymother thats just not me...it will never work for me

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Jodi - posted on 02/23/2014

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Well, you can go on about two way streets, but even if she treats you like crap, you should remain polite and civil. Two wrongs also don't make a right, and someone has to take the high road.

I'm not sure what you mean by sneaking around and trying to get food and money. I'm assuming she is after child support? If the boy is 18 but still in school, she still has a right to that. Yes, the son is old enough to manage his own relationship with his father. If he isn't doing that, then maybe it is time for your husband to talk to his son, but I am not sure why you need to have anything to do with her at all.

Shatika - posted on 02/23/2014

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What I DON'T like is the sneaking around on her behalf.. trying to get money /food money... etc .Also she hasn't been friendly or civil ..she feel she has baby mom rights... no son is grown..why worry after 18 year? She is single..and the son is old enough to have his own relationship with dad...

Michelle - posted on 02/22/2014

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It's 18 years ago, why would you be worried?
You don't have to be friends but like Jodi said, be nice and there isn't a problem.

Jodi - posted on 02/22/2014

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No-one is expecting you to be friends if you don't want to, but you need to be friendly and civil in your behaviour.

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