Rejection, Help.. I feel alone and a bit whiney....Poor me lol ( really sad)

Kelguevara - posted on 07/08/2012 ( 6 moms have responded )

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I feel so alone lately... Ever since I got rejected this week on Match.com.. I feel like crap and I even asked my son's father over and he ignored it. I think he is seeing someone, but that can also be my jealously and rejection talking. Damn Date messed me up. Please support Moms. I think I'm desperate on the weekends.. SAd Face

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Louise - posted on 07/09/2012

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Give up on the dating sites and go out there and meet real people instead. How can you tell if your meeting a nutter from an email! Organise a bunch of girls and go on a night out. You will have more fun and meeting a fella will come naturally rather than clicking a computer!

Sarah - posted on 07/08/2012

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Why are you allowing your single status to determine your happiness? It is not healthy to hinge your happiness on whether or not you have a partner. If you get rejected, then take it to mean he's not the right one for you and keep looking. Good luck.

Firebird - posted on 07/08/2012

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Work on loving *yourself* first. Loving someone doesn't make your life worth living. Having someone to love can enhance your life, yes, but it doesn't make or break your life. Be happy being you, and doing the things you like to do. Be independent. Don't let your self-worth be determined by another person and how they feel about you. Forcing love is not the path to happiness.

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Suzanne - posted on 07/09/2012

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Don't let that bother you or make you feel like crap. I know it's hard, especially when things aren't going the way you want them to, or if you're lonely. Try to talk to someone close to you, or just talk to people here (everyone seems to be really nice).
Did you ask your sons dad over because you still have feelings for him? Or was it because of something else? If that is too personal of a question I'm sorry. But feel free to talk about it if you want to.

Hope you feel better soon!

Stifler's - posted on 07/08/2012

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Its ok i'm married and feel like I'm single and have no one to love me.

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