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Jane - posted on 05/07/2015 ( 3 moms have responded )

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I gave my sister my daughter after my own mother died I was to scared to raise her me and my siter were very close I did not no she would kept making rules and if she did not get something I had she would not let me see my daughter I never hurt my daughter a tradgety that happened to me fir a long-term just. And also into my daughter's adult life up till she was21 I. did not see her but a few times into, her early.
Adult life and then also the rest of family was fading away upon my life all evolving around my daughter and secrecy about where we might see each other for my reasons and I've tried to keessh lp in touch with all of my family members and just want to see my grandson and hold him.

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Jodi - posted on 05/07/2015

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So you haven't raised your daughter. I'm sorry, but anyone who has raised their daughter until age 4 and then left her for others to raise has not raised their child. Never forgetting a Christmas, birthday or Easter is also not raising a child.

If I were your daughter, I wouldn't understand why you had given me away either. You can't say you never hurt your daughter. You have no idea how you may have hurt your daughter by giving her to your sister to raise! Your daughter is now 21 and has every right to feel how she feels.

If you want to see your grandson, you need to find a way to repair that relationship with your daughter. The first step to repairing that relationship is going to be your acknowledgement that you HAVE hurt her and you HAVE done wrong by her.

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Jane - posted on 05/07/2015

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No I raised my daughter until she was 4 my own mother died unexpectedly.of a heart attack so I could not raise her on 475and only 160 from her father I kept I in touch and never missed.a Christmas. birthday. or Easter I never. hurt my daughter I just wanted her to have a good home but when I gave her to my sister try to tear my daughter apart since all this my sister has been.married and divorced 2Times my daughter won't talk to me or let me see my grandson my oldest sister said to me my sister filled.my daughter lies and hurt and now my daughter is hurting all I wanted for my daughter was a good home. I would like to see my grandson.
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Jodi - posted on 05/07/2015

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Are you saying that you did not raise your daughter, but are now confused as to why she won't allow you to see her grandchild?

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