Relationship Falling + Expecting A Baby = ?

Maria - posted on 07/18/2011 ( 3 moms have responded )




I'm 17 , My boyfriend and I have been on and off since 2OO7. When i found out i was pregnant (Febuary 2O11) , we were so scared like what are we going to do. ABORTION & ADOPTION ? Were completely out of the picture, so i guess that brings us to now. I'm 8 months pregnant and before i got pregnant we barely had problem, a few trust issues here and the but its was never that bad. Now its like he's always hiding something. We broke up like last month because he was talking and texting to other girls behind my back. He said he "stopped" but it hard to believe and on top of that its like were still together he's always sleeping at my house with me . We talk all day and we do a bunch of stuff together still. He says he don't talk to other girl anymore but i feel like he is. I just want it all to go away and for us to be together and be a family with our baby. But whenever i try to talk about it , it seems like were not getting anywhere. WHAT DO I DO ?


JuLeah - posted on 07/18/2011




I wouldn't count on him. Like many women, you are going to do this without a second parent. Lean on your family, lean on your community and know your strength


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Jane - posted on 07/19/2011




Relationship Falling + Expecting A Baby = Single Mom.

He isn't mature enough for all of that to go away. Be prepared to raise this child on your own.

Shannintipton - posted on 07/18/2011




That is a tough one. I dont have an answer for you but it sounds like it could be better. I hope you have a supportive family to help you threw this. This is not a good time to be alone. Well it never is, I guess. I hope it works out for you and your little one to be. I wish I could be more help. sorry Good luck. :)

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