Adriana - posted on 03/23/2015 ( 8 moms have responded )
My husband convinced me to give him a second chance while we were separated. I decided to give it a "trial run". During this time he was the person I met and fell in love with. Sweet, caring, appreciative, showed me affection, and actually communicated with me (he always had an issue with this). Not long after this he canceled our divorce. Fast forward two months later... he is distant, rude, threatens me with empty threats (if you do this again you will regreat it). Any money that I get from him has to be accounted for before he gives me more. This normally ends up in an argument. He does not help me with our 16 month old son. This past weekend he has stayed out with friends drinking and didn t come home till 5:30 in the morning. Any time he asks me whats wrong when he can tell something is bothering me and I tell him, no matter what it is his response is "thats stupid" or "thats retarted". So now I don t even talk to him about anything. I do not cry in front of him. Any time he catches me crying he tells me to quit pouting. We also haven t had sex in over a month. He hasn t even attempted. Our son stayed the night with his grandparents, that night all my husband did was sit on the couch and watch TV all night. If I try to kiss him or show affection he sighs and then makes up an excuse (I have to go to the bathroom or I have work to do) to get away. I have talked to him about couceling he agreed when we were separated and now he says no because we can t afford it...when we can actually easily afford it. Pretty much what happened was after the he cancelled the divorce he went back to his old self. Should I just go ahead and reopen the divorce?