Y53perla833t - posted on 07/24/2015 ( 1 mom has responded )
I have officially left any romantic relationship behind with my baby's paternal father. It did me more harm and more harm to my own child than I actually realized at the moment. When I found out he had a new gf whom he moved into his room (I say room because he still lives with his parents), I did not take my son away from him. Later she begin to text me and tell me things like "he is gonna do this and wants that and how would you like the money?" !!!! She told me how long they had been together for and asked if he had really been with me. The point is it was a lot of drama and my son was in the middle of everything. He was behaving aggressively (excessively) and he isolated himself. Pulled his hair and said "papa" and also hit himself. He did more but it can get lengthy. I finally had the guts to tell this man, who had been threatening to take my child away, that he could not see take his son anymore and I put my son in therapy. After a couple weeks he contacted me once in a while only to ask about him and then brought up other things. After so a talk with his parents, my son is now seeing my baby daddy's parents every week (they did not realize what was going on before then) now, my baby daddy claims that he is taking therapy and texts me every day to see how my son is doing. I reply short and straightforward. But his responses do not sound like him but like a machine. They have two different layouts interchangeably. It feels like another one of his tricks. He has framed me several times. I offered he come visit his son. He says he is not ready to see him. He also says he wants to give money but has not. I offered him to come therapy he says he is not ready to see me. So I do not understand what he wants. Just to see how his son is doing via text ? Every day ? I have no help from him at all am i in a sense obligated to keep him updated on his son like this. ? Its been a about a week and a half of this. Also, after everything that happened, how should i go about introducing him back into his life in case he does end up taking my offer? Its almost 2 months since he last spent time with his dad.