rights o f fathers not on birth certificate but still pay csa
There are a lot of personal issues and my ex kept away afterwards as he said he didn't want our child to be caught up in us arguing all the time. He said he'd wait until she came looking for him and now my daughter has started to ask questions as she now knows who he is and wants to see him. It's all a bit of a mess because I really hate my ex and I'm also getting a lot of pressure from my father who hates him even more than I do not to give him access.
Michelle - posted on 09/23/2011
Louise: Why don't you want him to see his daughter? If he's abusive I can understand but it's not fair on your daughter to deny seeing her father.
I don't know what the laws are in Scotland but there should be a website that you could look up.
Hi, I'm Louise and I'm new on here and need some advise. My ex (we were never married) has had a DNA test and is paying child support and is not on my daughters birth certificate. I admit it wasn't a good break up and I have been mean in the past by not letting him see her. He is now pressing for visitation after 6 years , my daughter was born at the beginning of March 2003 and I don't know if the laws in Scotland can prevent him a) from seeing her or b) if he can have his name put on the birth certificate. Please help? I was told laws are different in Scotland, especially if the child was born in 2003? Have I been misinformed? Thanks.
Jodi - posted on 08/17/2011
If we are talking CSA in Australia, then rights have nothing to do with child support. Child support is decided by the agency, *rights* are decided by the Family Court.
However, more information about your actual question would make it much easier to respond.....I have not idea what you are specifically wanting to know.
Rowan - posted on 08/17/2011
I'm in exactly the same position. The CSA told me that he (my ex) could either prove that he wasn't my sons father or he could pay maintinance. He chose to pay but if he ever wanted access to see our son he would have to prove he is the father by taking a DNA test, before he can have access.
Hope that helps xx
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