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I know this isn't a mom question, but I felt like this would be a good group to ask. Backstory:
My husband and I have been married for 8 years and have 3 kids. When we got married, we were very poor. I had just an engagement ring for the first few years, then bought a cheap wedding band on Etsy when I was pregnant with my 2nd kid because I kept getting weird looks (husband and I both look very young for our age.) It doesn't match my engagement ring at all, and has become very worn in the last few years.
Is it selfish to ask my husband for a new wedding band now that we are almost 10 years in, and way better off? I don't even want something expensive for fancy! Just something pretty and simple to compliment the engagement ring he so carefully picked out for me. And if it's o.k. how do I explain it properly? I don't want to sound like I'm greedy because that's really not my heart at all.