Rude spouse

Annie - posted on 02/25/2016 ( 1 mom has responded )

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the way he talks to me in front of my son (12yr) is so disrespectful & he no's I won't argue back most times in front.of son I basically distract son & walk into other rm. I'm so tired of this marriage I want.out I've had it but have nothing to live on or with

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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 02/25/2016

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You're probably not going to like th is, but...

Generally, those who are disrespectful, and borderline verbally abusive will continue unless confronted. Since this has been going on so long without you confronting him, you're giving him the green light to continue.

I'd suggest counseling, first. Individual for you, and couples for the both of you. If you don't wish to do that, or he won't, then put on your big girl panties and file for divorce. The only one responsible for your happiness is you.

ETA: You also need to consider the very poor example you are giving your son regarding relationships. He will treat women as he's been raised to, which , at this point, is by being disrespectful and verbally abusive

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