Sad kids r growing up

Andrea - posted on 09/14/2014 ( 4 moms have responded )

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Just feel sad. Kids don't need me as much and their problems r more complicated. They are always bored if not kept busy. I am just rambling. Sunday night blues :(

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Andrea - posted on 09/15/2014

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Thanks. I like the way u think.

I have a hard time letting go of things.

You have been very helpful. Thank you

Hugs back to you. :)

Carolina - posted on 09/15/2014

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Oh that's a tough one. I'm constantly wondering how things would be had i done this instead of that or didn't move or whatever. I have to remind myself all the time that I'm exactly where I'm supposed to be and that my life is wonderful.
You can only change what you can control.
Just remember, every decision you have made has been because at the time, they were the right ones for you and your family.

More hugs!

User - posted on 09/15/2014

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Thanks Carolina! Trashy tv might be a good idea.

I felt your hugs:)

Another issue I have is always revisiting the if onlys and what ifs of my life
Not good to do. Bad habit

Any advice from anyone on how to make peace with
Decisions and be satisfied

Thanks

Carolina - posted on 09/14/2014

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Hug for you!
Another hug for you!

My little is 2 so I'm hoping she will still need me for a bit longer.

They will always need you. Just in different ways.
I like to think back on my childhood and kind of pinpoint when I needed my mom less. Then I like to think about now and how much I need her. She had her ticket booked to get to Seattle 3days before my due date. I went into labor a week early. When she get here, she just took over. Let me sleep, cleaned cooked, watched Annabelle so I could shower, she did everything for me.

Moms are super heros. We do the impossible everyday and then do it over and over again.

Your kids will need you! Don't worry about that! Talk to them as much as you can and give them space to remember how much they do need you.

Don't feel blue, have a glass of wine and watch some trashy tv.

Feel better.

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