scarred new daddy says he needs time to procces things been 8 days

Amanda - posted on 09/07/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )

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The father of our baby is a 35 year old first time dad who is used to living the bacholer life. About 9 days ago i told him i need more time with him whe'd on average spend a day together. I told him that all i feel like is your baby mama and i don't know where i stand. later when he got back to me. I don't know im confused about everything right know. I need some time to process everything. I told him he sounds unsure and if he doesnt want to be with me i can deal with that. He says it's not that. He just doesnt want to make any dumb decisions. then we ended with him telling me not to be scarred it will all work out. What is going through his head

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Sophia - posted on 09/08/2012

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well lets start out with the one real decision he has made.... being a father. stop at 35 years old really..... he just want you to know you may get only child support money.... if that in the long run...... honey you have boys that sound like more of a man right now.

Sophia - posted on 09/08/2012

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well lets start out with the one real decision he has made.... being a father. stop at 35 years old really..... he just want you to know you may get only child support money.... if that in the long run...... honey you have boys that sound like more of a man right now.

Michelle - posted on 09/08/2012

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Well, I have no idea what's going through his head, no one does expect for him.



All I can suggest is to give him some space to sort it out like he has asked. Maybe talk to him and come to an agreement on a timeframe though so you're not left in limbo.

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