sd causes drama

Kris - posted on 06/12/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )

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Ok my kids are grown. Stepkids as well. My stepkids have no respect for anyone. Step son uses things never puts it back. Uses my brand new shop vac.
Lost all the tools. Hubby said oh
we can go buy more. I think he should replace them. Uses my car adjusts everything to fit his liking. Step daughter got pregnant at 14. Lived with mother ran away. All ex wife has done is bad mouthed us. She didnt talk to father for years. Mad at him then got mad at her mother. Then hubbys mother. Now mad at me. She is allowed to be rude. Hubby seems to think avoiding the issue is best. He has a step daughter who is also part of it. I was being forced to go to a dinner and step daughter called said me going would ruin that. Called and screamed at hubby for 45 mins. I have never pulled and punches with these kids. I have been straight up. When all this drama happen Stepson gets in my face told him I did need to discuss it with him. He kept forcing the issue. Hubby sat there and allow him to call me names. I finally after 30 mins of being told how she doesnt want a relationship. Blew a fuse. My kids have never disrepected my hubby. I have done what hubby told me to do. Now I m being crusifed. I think that his mother is happy its not her. She has planned a baby shower for sd. One I have no issue with. Everytime kids are around she is like a horn in mertz. She seems pleased that im no included. Says things like your just the stepmom. Im fed up. My daughters were the ones that talked to her when her own wouldn't talk to her. I find myself falling all over myself. Doing things for stepkids only to be treated like I dont count dont matter. This is now causing issues between hubby and I. I m more upset with him. If my kids spoke to him this way he would be mad too. I feel like saying I quit. Any thoughts? Plz be kind...

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Kris - posted on 06/17/2013

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Excally.....I thought that too. 31, 23 my bio. His are 24 22 21. I am the one that buys flowers cards and gifts. Not doing it anymore. Also his kids are constantly rude and ungreatful. I am sick of being blamed. When its him.

Katherine - posted on 06/12/2013

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Unfortunately it sounds like you need to cut loose. How old are they now? Your husband should have your back no matter what in my opinion.

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