SJ - posted on 03/23/2014 ( 1 mom has responded )
My husband and I have been separated for 2 1/2 months. We both are in education so since the beginning of school year I suspected he was seeing someone. During Christmas vacation I found out it was his coworker who he spends all day with on duties. I just found out that he had been taking her with him on weekend events he had with his friends. This hurt terribly because I had the hopes of us getting back together. We have two kids, ages 5 and 10 who calls every other day and picks up Wednesdays and Saturdays for 2 hours. He had told me he had no feelings for me at all and wanted to remain friends for our kids. We had been married 12 years and I still love him and hate what he's doing to our kids. Why do men behave this way? Why don't they realize the grass is not greener on the other side, that its artificial turf?