Christian - posted on 09/01/2013 ( no moms have responded yet )
This is the Husband. I want to make that clear right off the bat. I am rough, and sharp and often quick tempered. I am working really hard on this. We go to counseling together and sex is the biggest issue. My wife is a virtuous woman of God, and I am a man full of sin working on turning the corner. My calling is in the priest hood however I am still a man and desire so much more from my wife, sexually. She can't seem to come out of her shell.
It doesn't help that I'm an asshole. I am working on it though, I really am, it's just so hard at times when I'm always either being turned down of made to feel that taking care of her husband is a chore. I want to feel desired the same as anybody. Sex at times is so mechanical, there is no feeling or fire there anymore. Of course all the stars need to be in alignment.
The Kids have to be gone or asleep.
I have to have been a sweet loving husband for the past week.
We of course have to work around mother nature.
She has to have the time and energy. (Recent illnesses have zapped her energy Chronic Fatigue syndrome).
Isn't a woman supposed to want to take care of her man. Be the one for him. Be his lover, best friend and at times dirty girl or freak?
Why is this so hard?
Please help a Loving husband who feels like just a provider. I don't want to step out. I fight that desire every day and the devil just keeps putting that shit in my face.