Michelle - posted on 06/23/2009 ( 16 moms have responded )
My sex drive after kids is low at best. I want to be a good wife and mother and have trouble balancing the act. My husband is very attention needy and has a high sex drive. I feel left behind. I want to be able to keep up with him. I feel I am losing it sometimes and hate it when I disappoint him by not having any enthusiasm left for that part of our lives. After three kids I have less time and energy left for him and our marriage. He is very helpful with the kids, house work and cooking. I do not make the time and effort always needed for our love life and need a boost. Any ideas??? He is a good and considerate lover so that is not the problem. I do not want to starve his self esteem with my lack of drive. Anyone else out there who has had this problem and found help?