James - posted on 12/09/2015 ( 1 mom has responded )
Do men know how to stimulate a woman the way that she gets turned on. I doubt it.
I have dated 15 women over 60 and they all get fired up if a man uses and knows how to turn her on.
I can see it is easy to suppress sexual needs. Continuing a mind set that makes you one is to be cultivated. It is easier to keep the denial going rather than going along with denials that need resolved. It is a biological need to transfer the chemicals and substances to one another.
Everything works if you lay back and the two of you plays with each other for an hour.
So, it seems like both partners need sex therapy, and separate sex from daily issues. No thinking of grocery lists, etc. The two you should keep sex on a different plane.
After all, it is wonderful when the two of you are lost in a cloud of pleasure.