Shall i just give up the family house ?

Sisi - posted on 10/26/2012 ( 6 moms have responded )

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I'm a full time mum with two children, I file for divorce on the 1/01/2012, my husband is from an middle class family, he want the house, not the children. what shall i do? shall i give up to take half? because I feel like i can't go on this anymore. just too much to handle, Emotionally . what can i do?

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Holly - posted on 10/26/2012

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I am glad i helped. you can be a strong independent woman. this is what i strived for for my children. i have 2 girls, and i wanted so much better for my kids than how i turned out. i wanted to prove to my girls that a woman can be independent and strong, by herself. that a woman does not need to rely on a man for everything. but the same for if you have boys. you want the boys to see what a strong woman is, so that when they grow up to be young men, they will want an independent woman for a wife.

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Sisi - posted on 10/26/2012

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I have a girl and a boy. um, you are right, we don't need to rely on a man for everything, some man are just a loser, take everything for granted, doesn't care a thing about others, not even his own children.

I'm so glad to know you.

Sisi - posted on 10/26/2012

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Thank you very much! Holly, I will do my best to fight for what we deserve, I just feeling down today, because I'm alone in the uk, with no family support. but you made me feel much better, thank you so much!

Holly - posted on 10/26/2012

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you need yo be strong for your children's sake, they need a strong mother who will be strong for them. if your ex is that much of a loser, there is no need to be so depressed... when i left, i had to pick myself up and dust myself off and look forward to the fact that i will be the best mom that i can possibly be for my kids.

Sisi - posted on 10/26/2012

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Thank you! Holly, but i'm very depress, feel like this is never going to end. I couldn't eat, couldn't sleep.

Holly - posted on 10/26/2012

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if you have the children you NEED the house... make him pay as much CS As you can so that you can afford the house.

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