Lily - posted on 03/09/2012 ( 76 moms have responded )
I just want to know every ones input on my relationship because I'm not really quit sure whats the right thing to do and not to do. You can say i'm second guessing and also i'm confusing my own self.
My husband and I have been married for three years and we have two beautiful daughters who's 19 months and 4months old. Our marriage has been really rough from the start. We have our goods and bads like every other relationship have it. Just recently my husband read my text with some good old friends of mines and misunderstood them and took it like i was cheating on him, so without saying anything or asking he walked out with his cloths and took all our money , close our banking accounts and change his number. When i woke up that day he was already gone with his mom. He has blocked us out and refused to get in contact with us because his family won't allow him to. Now that i finally got a hold of him he wants me to go beg him back at his parents house or call them and let them know that i want this marriage to work. i don't feel like i should have to do that because we are both at fault here and on top of that if he loved us he would come home him-self. Now my family is making me chose between them both. I don't know who to chose because i don't want to chose, i just want them both to be apart of my life. my family has always been there to back me up and been there for me when i need someone. my husband is the father of my two children and i love him. But this has also been the second time he walked out on me and my kids. he wants me to prove to him that i still want to be with him and for the last month i have tried to talk to him and met up with him to try and work things out for the better of this marriage, i even went to go pick him up but he refused to come home with me, yet he say's it's not enough. Should i give him another chance and risk loosing my family again or should i just move on and just support my kids on my own and still know i still have my family? I don't know who to chose because both my husband and family has hurted me in ways i'll never forget it. Please help me pin point my decision and help give your thoughts so i can decided what i should do.