Ericka - posted on 10/09/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )
My ex and I already have a parenting plan agreement via our divorce in 2010. In the divorce I was awarded physical custody and we both have joint legal custody. He was also suppose to pay $867.00 since March 2010 but did not do so until DHR enforced it (2012). He was found in contempt May 2012 and was suppose to pay $867 plus a purge amount of $4036 by August 29, 2012. He just paid $4036 right before we went to court today (October 9, 2012). Anyway, I need words of encouragement because he lied about me and my family on the stand and it still hurts me. I could of talked about his family but I am just not a dirty person. I couldn't do it despite the lies he told the judge about my disabled mom and stepdad being current drug addicts. Anyway, the judge didn't even rule on the case instead he ask that both of us prepare and order and he will look over it before signing. HuH? what the heck does that mean? I want him to continue seeing his daughter every other weekend like the agreement states. His argument is that he wants her every weekend. I want to do fun stuff with her too on the weekends. I don't want to just be the homework parent. I just want the agreement to stay the same. I am not the one disrespecting court orders; he is... If he gets every weekend I will loose my daughter. He will poison her mind with lies. I do not object holidays, etc we can alternate like the current agreement states. Please feel free to shed some light. Thanks Please excuse me if I misspelled a word- I am so angry.