Shit is gonna real

Minori - posted on 11/19/2015 ( 17 moms have responded )

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I was at my friend's flat last night. We were chatting and had good night. Suddenly , my boyfriend came there with bunch of his friends and started being rude at me for no reason. I asked him what's problem his friend who I don't know slapped me in stomach neither if I got pregnant recently. I woked up in hospital
My boyfriend was the best boyfriend ever what can I do
What if I lose my baby

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Jodi - posted on 11/19/2015

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If you already missed a period and went to the doctor because of it, then you are more than 3 weeks pregnant. Just saying.

Jodi - posted on 11/19/2015

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Uh, you call the police. You were assaulted, and this is not okay. I'd be losing the boyfriend too.

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Sarah - posted on 11/21/2015

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It does not matter if you are a US citizen or not, if you are in us territory you are protected by US laws. Therefore, anyone who assaulted you is guilty of felony assault and you should pursue those charges. Your initial post was very vague, that is why the questions get asked.

Minori - posted on 11/21/2015

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Thanks for advice and huge thanks for worrying. My friend called the police and I hope I'll be safe. I feel better today , my stomach doesn't hurt that much and doctors said that I can leave hospital on Monday.
Now I don't know how to continue normal life after that. I planned to leave college for a while and stay with a friend for a little but is it good idea because of the end of quarter

Sarah - posted on 11/20/2015

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It does not matter if you are a US citizen or not, if you are in us territory you are protected by US laws. Therefore, anyone who assaulted you is guilty of felony assault and you should pursue those charges. Your initial post was very vague, that is why the questions get asked.

Jodi - posted on 11/20/2015

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Fair enough....but I will admit, I am a little confused as to what advice you are after.

Minori - posted on 11/20/2015

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It is forum about motherhood and pregnancy stuff that's why I didn't mentioned it
I have done all the tests
Don't worry I will be ok

Jodi - posted on 11/20/2015

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So now you also have broken bones and bruises......but you didn't think to mention that before?

And you only know you are pregnant because someone told you? Have you actually done a pregnancy test? A urine test? A blood test? Any kind of test?

Minori - posted on 11/20/2015

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Please don't think that I wish someone's mercy or attention I just feel terrible and I posted it because I wanna know how to continue after that

Minori - posted on 11/20/2015

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Well I am in hospital because I have fainted as doctor said. They were drunk or high whatever. My ex boyfriend started being rude at me Idk why and when I asked what's problem he slapped me and then his friend hitted me in stomach. That's all I can ememberr Doctor said that I was fainted but at the other hand my womb isn't injured but I may have problems with pregnancy because of stress. Also I broke my leg and left hand and half of my face is in bruises so...
And I am just studying in the US I am not from US

Sarah - posted on 11/20/2015

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What sent you to the hospital? The assault or something with your period? At three weeks your period would by less than a week late. If you were punched a thousand times, I am surprised you don't have an internal injury. You initial post states: "his friend who I don't know slapped me in stomach" Being slapped in the stomach in much different than being punched a thousand times. What was the outcome of your call to the police? In the US an assault on a pregnant woman is a felony. It doesn't matter if you or the assailant knew you were pregnant at the time.
If you did not know you were pregnant, what would have motivated your BF to have his "friends" assault your abdomen? This whole scenario is confusing.

Minori - posted on 11/20/2015

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Well , I don't know I haven't got any knowledge for medicine so some nurse /doctor told me that. It's weird because I noticed that I am very picky about the food and I have got constantly sicknesses almost every morning and sometimes during the day.
I will consult with someone from hospital
Thanks for worrying
Have a nnc day

Minori - posted on 11/19/2015

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I.called the police of course... Well , I went to doctor because of my period and they told me that I am pregnant. There was no bleeding but it hurts because that idiot punched me thousand times....
I feel really broken and helpless

Sarah - posted on 11/19/2015

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Have you called the police? How could you know you are only three weeks? That is very, very early to know you are pregnant. Your baby is the size of a lima bean, if you aren't bleeding it is safe. What I'd be more worried about is the crazy boyfriend and friends, who should all be in jail.

Minori - posted on 11/19/2015

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I hope that my kid is going to be ok... I am in third week . Doctor said that womb isn't injured but I feel pain because of hits... I can't stop thinking why they attacked me

Minori - posted on 11/19/2015

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You are right... oh God I feel so broken and everything hurts me especially stomach

Sarah - posted on 11/19/2015

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Obviously not the best boyfriend. You don't lose a baby over being hit in the belly, unless you are far enough along that the trauma so severe, that the placenta ruptures or the fetus itself gets injured. Early on, your baby is so tiny and protected by your body.

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