Louie - posted on 06/24/2014 ( 6 moms have responded )
I've been visiting this site for awhile and actually learning a lot of stuff but now I am here to ask an advise regarding my situation.
My husband had a son from his previous relationship.he is now 21 years old and was born here.He is a good kid it seems although I don't see him that much.( I really can't tell)..the problem I saw in him is that he is so lazy.He didn't finish high school and now at his age he only work part time delivering flyers to every doorsteps once or twice a week....he is always in front of his computer doing online games. right now he is living with the kids of his mothers live in partner but they doesnt like him because of his attitute.( being lazy-not doing any responsibilities at home) His father told him many times about the importance of having a job and studying but he doesn't care...the last time his father spoked to him he get mad and did not talk to him for a year.
anyway the problem here is this...we are planing to buy a house a 3 bedroom atleast because we are planning to have a baby and also my son who is 10 years old is coming soon from the Philippines.After Daniel found out that we are moving and planning to buy a house he said he wants to live with us...I really don't know how to react. Is it ok for my step son to live with us? if yes what are the rules that I can imposed in order for him to be responsible and not being lazy?