Should I be concerned ?

Jessica Ann - posted on 03/05/2014 ( 19 moms have responded )

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I'm not a mom yet and I don't know if this is were I should be posting this, i do want a daughter I want to name her Olivia Ann Marie and last night my boyfriend and I had unprotected sex and we didn't think of anything of it and he you know but this morning my mother called me said she had a dream I was pregnant, and I Hurd that if other people dream it, that it come true?

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Livia - posted on 03/05/2014

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Whoa! Ok First of all I have heard those old wives tales that if someone dreams that you are gonna get pregnant that you do. Some people believe that stuff. Also everyone has to remember that not everyone is as worldly as some people THINK They are. Why people attack so many people in these rooms is beyond me. Lets just say she was a young girl in trouble looking for help. I mean you never know who is behind that keyboard. SOmetimes people type things that others find silly, or they mis-type something or it comes out the wrong way. We don't have to attack each other. Jessica if you dont or you are not ready for Children find some form or birth control please ;) If you are ready then good luck and have fun trying :)

Jessica Ann - posted on 03/07/2014

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Thank you so much. Your actually very kind unlike other people

Chandra - posted on 03/06/2014

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wow !!everyone one took a light hearted conversation and turned it into an attack why are there so many cruel people out there if you can't just say "it's a myth " then don't make a comment towards her none of you are helpful only one out of the handful seems to understand the purpose of this site while the rest of you use it as an opportunity to stand up on your arrogant cloud and criticize this girl quit being bullies your supposed to be mothers why dont you pretend to be good people and act like mothers!!!! AND JESSICA ~I can understand your question ive had my girlfriends say thing's like that to me as well dreaming i was pregnant when i wasnt and it usually was said after i mentioned my concern over a broken condom or missing a pill , if your pregnant trust me you will know a dream cant tell you but your body will ...Trust yourself and your body your not a dummy your stupid your curious asking a question which you were hoping could be answered without and argument or regrets; This isn't a bad site just some of the people on hear forget the purpose of it's existence , were supposed to help one another and support one another when there is no one else we can talk to or confide in , we should treat one another better than this !

~♥Little Miss - posted on 03/05/2014

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Name calling is REALLY unnecessary Jessica. By all of your previous statements, it is indicated you did not understand what birth control actually was. No one is trying to insult you, just educate you.

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~♥Little Miss - posted on 03/06/2014

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You can believe anything you want. If you want to believe it is a sign of pregnancy, go for it.

If you don't want to get pregnant, stop having sex unprotected.

Jessica Ann - posted on 03/06/2014

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Thank you for understanding what I was getting at, I was asking should I believe in it? And I was on birth control until I was getting month long periods so I stopped and we don't normally do sexual stuff and it was spare the moment kind of thing my doctor told me to quit taking my pills and wait till I start my period again to change that kind of birth control I am on.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 03/05/2014

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Oh pardon my misquote. Here's what I meant "We're NOT trying to get pregnant, he pulls out"...so...

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 03/05/2014

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Well, you didn't indicate such knowledge, since you claimed to be having protected sex, and defining that as 'he pulls out'...

Jessica Ann - posted on 03/05/2014

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Both of you are dumb because I am ready to have kids! You both don't know me so you wouldn't know! And I know about sex! And what happens with sperm and Precum and I know that pulling out ain't anything close to birth control! And I was doing research and i ended up here! And thank you

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 03/05/2014

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Good grief. Do some research, and educate yourself. You aren't ready for kids yet, if you don't understand that pulling out doesn't equal birth control.

And, no, dreams do not indicate that you are pregnant.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 03/05/2014

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Then if you were not on the pill anymore, then you are NOT using protection. Pulling out is not protection. Like I previously stated, precum (the clear liquid at the tip of the penis during erection) STILL has sperm in it and you can get pregnant form that. Use condoms if you are not trying to get pregnant.

Jessica Ann - posted on 03/05/2014

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We're not trying to get pregnant he pulls out, and yes I was on birth control until I started having months long periods

~♥Little Miss - posted on 03/05/2014

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Well then clearly you are trying to get pregnant if you never use protection.

Jessica Ann - posted on 03/05/2014

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No we never use protection and no I do know that if someone dreams about you being pregnant don't mean that you are, I haven't been feeling good and I'm always tired. Last night we both achieved orgasms.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 03/05/2014

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Seriously? Your question is, if someone dreams that your pregnant can that come true???

How about we look at facts here. You had unprotected sex that you don't seem to concerned about. YES you could get pregnant. You can get pregnant just by him entering you once and not achieving orgasm. His precum contains sperm also.

So, be level headed about this. If you are not ready to have babies, start using protection. If you miss your period, get a pregnancy test. Don't think that since you already had unprotected sex that you don't need to use protection, cause if you are not pregnant now, the next time you may be.

"my boyfriend and I had unprotected sex and we didn't think of anything of it "

WHY would you not have thought anything of it?????????? You must have unprotected sex often.

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