Katy - posted on 06/25/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )
I found out the my ex is my sons father. Before we found this out he was suing me for DNA, custody, and child support. We got a dna test saying he is the father, since the day we found out, I have let him in my home for 2 visits(6 to 7hrs at a time) to see his son and have tried to skype him when possible. My lawyer and I had to file for a change of venue since he did not file the suit were our son is living, when we filed the suit I went ahead and counter sued him for the same thing. I don't think he knows I did this and he tried calming to me all he sued me for was dna. I typed up personal agreements as far as visitation and support goes to keep things out of court and to be fare since courts can be harsh on the father. He didn't like the agreements and he is now saying he dropped the suit...he is not making sense. I do not trust him. I tried letting him skype with his son today but he claims he was with his lawyer..... I feel like he is trying to do things behind my back so I am now going to find a lawyer in the county i live in and go ahead with the suit for child support and custodial custody. I don't want to take his son away but the way he treats me and my family while he is here visiting is very rude and sketchy. If I do this should I continue the visits? his family and friends want me to go to a baby shower but I don't feel comfortable with it because of the suit and the way he has been acting. I tried to be nice and make sure he could see his son but I think he is wanting more than that and I cant give him more since my son is only 4mo old and 100% breast fed.....what to do?