Should i cut off Spiteful "babyfather"?

Nessa - posted on 01/07/2016 ( no moms have responded yet )




I know this is a tricky subject and i know that there are woman that stop dads seeing their kids out of spite for no good reason. I was with my sons dad for 7 years. My son is nearly 4 now. We broke up just over a year ago because he was a serial cheat and i could not forgive him for getting another woman pregnant whilst we were together also i was pregnant with my son. Initially after i found out of his betrayal (i was 5 months pregnant with our son) i tried to work it out with him for the sake of our son. He was an "ok" dad to our son whilst we were together, but since i left him he does not really bother with him. We had a arrangement that he has his son every other weekend, but he never sticks to it. Just to add he has another son from a previous relationship that he has more or less every weekend. He hardly asks to have my son, and when he does its always last minute. He was made redundant in 2014, so he was not financially supporting our son. At first i was supportive and advised he try and get a job as financially i was finding it difficult to buy food, clothes, pay bills aswell as our sons nursery fees. I work and i try really hard to support our son and my son from a previous relationship. So basically he did not help financially for all of 2015 and the ending months of 2014. I recently found out that he is working so i confronted him and told him he needs to step up financially. To cut a long story short... He gave me £40 laughed and said that its for our son to last the month and whilst laughing said if i go to csa i will b getting much less. This was all said whilst laughing evilly. He knows that i am struggling to support my boys. I work really hard and will continue to. My view on this is if he barely bothers with our son and somehow believes he come in and out of his life whilst justifying £40 a month is reasonable for his child. He doesnt care about him. He clearly wants him to suffer so why have this man around my child?
He clearly favors his first son.

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