should i feel guilty?

Ana - posted on 10/16/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )

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my fiance made me feel guilty! my daughter turns 1 yr that she has passed away and i want to do some kind of get together and he responded that its not right to remember her and celebrate when shes not in this world anymore! my daughter passed away when i was just 22wks pregnant yeshe lived for 22hrs...

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Ariana - posted on 10/16/2012

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Everyone greives differently, for him he may think celebrating it is disrespectful. I think as long as you make sure it's not like a party atmosphere but a way to talk aobut the child and show pictures and things that it isn't disrespectful and your way of grieving.



Try to tell him that for you, your way of helping get through it is by gathering and celebrating the time you had with her and getting support from others. For him he may not want to do it in this way.



It's a really tough situation to be in.

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