L R - posted on 10/12/2012 ( 7 moms have responded )
Where do I begin....
My son is 15 and fell hard for this sweet girl (same age). She is absolutely a doll however everything has a price... this little girl is verbally abused by her mom. When I say abused, I mean abused! Her mom I believe has a mental illness and thrives on causing trouble as well as making her daughter and my son sad. I have treated this little girl as I would treat my own. Her mom is always competing with my son regarding grades and awards!!! Yes!!! She wouldn't even attend an award ceremony because her child wasn't getting as many awards as she thought she should! Needless to say.... it has become impossible for me to even talk to her mom. When my son calls, she is mean and hangs up. Allows them to make plans and at the last minute, tells her child she cannot go! This child has no girlfriends because of her mom. I believe the she is now clinically depressed. My son has waited a whole month to see her and her mother has to have control over everything, including their phone calls. I am coming to you because I am not sure where to go.... I feel I cannot help her daughter but I feel that this has caused so much heartache to my son that I want him to let go. He is sitting by hoping things will change (as we know, they won't). Do I force him to stop all contact or just allow him to eventually let go? She swears and at yells at and he has not done anything wrong! They are both 98 average students and all they want is to be together and have fun.... They both are good kids..... PS.... other girls' moms love my son!..........So sad.