should I force my son to go with his grandparents (even if they dont see him but 3 times a year?)

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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 05/02/2012

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Yes, you are, Amanda. If they don't want you as the parents to be around when they visit, that indicates (to me) that there may be something underhanded going on. Otherwise, why else would they be so limiting?

Amanda - posted on 05/01/2012

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thank you guys I really do appricate. I thought I was doing the wrong thing....

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 05/01/2012

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If they don't want you, his mother, to be involved in their visit, then they don't need to visit. Period. Why on earth would they not want you to be with you child, easing the stress, and helping him to form a bond with them?

September - posted on 05/01/2012

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Well if they want to see their grandchild and he's not confortable being alone with them then they should allow you to join. It seems silly to not be able to join in the visit imo. I would not force my child to do anything.

Amanda - posted on 05/01/2012

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we have tried that they don't want us to join them, for some reason i just wanted to see if i was making the right choice...

September - posted on 05/01/2012

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No. If he's not comfortable being alone with them why not join him for the visit? That way he can still see his grandparents while feeling secure.

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