should i get out of this marriage now?

Rashme - posted on 05/01/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )

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I am married for almost 5yrs and have a 3yr old daughter . He is good person without any bad habits like Alcohol etc. but is very addicted to TV and computer games. i tried talking to him ,asking him to spend more time with us than TV, keep begging him to take a walk with me. But it always fails. We fight almost 1s a week now a days. and only on that day he comes out for a walk ,and gets back to same state the next day. i am tiered of fighting. i tried sitting with him and watching for some time to see if we canspend some time together. but that just adds to his habit. I really dont know what to do with this. he is very irresponsible financially as well and we tay with inlaws who are again irresponsible set of ppl. i am worried abt the environmenet my child will get even if i some how decide on living with him. I need some suggestions on if i should go ahead with divorce ,will the kid be more impacted staying together than divorce.. i am confused.. please suggest

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~♥Little Miss - posted on 05/01/2014

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Are you still in love? Is he a good daddy? Do you have means to move out? If you can find an apartment that you can afford on your own, do it. Let him know WHY you are doing it. Without his parents paying for everything, he may NOT be able to play and watch tv anymore. But you should put that in the stipulations of him moving in with you and baby.

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Rashme - posted on 05/01/2014

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I am working make decent living, we had house brought together. i would not say is a good daddy as he wont bother to spend time with her at all due to his TV habits.. any decisions related to her i have been making mostly as his inputs to that generally are less.

I dont know if i still love him. this is something i dont know... sounds weird right?

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