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I have a sister in law who fights with everyone (even slapped a relative at someones bachelorette party because she felt the woman was getting too much attention). She screams at people, lies about people, has called my husband curse words in front of our kids, has accused me of not allowing our kids to see her but apologized for lying when confronted. She said it was because "You don't pay enough attention to me." The worst was when she tried to poison my own kid against me by saying that I was keeping him from her. He knew she was lying because the truth is that HE wants nothing to do with her despite all of my nagging him to call/visit or message her on facebook. She seems obsessed with my kids and now that I'm pregnant, the thought of having her at my baby shower makes me sick. Every person in my family agrees that she is a horrible person. They've all distanced themselves from her but my mother in law is afraid that if I don't invite her to the baby shower, she will get in trouble for attending or my sister in law will flip out and do something worse. Did I mention that my sister in law has also decided to befriend a person who has stalked, harassed and threatened my family for years (my husbands ex wife whom he divorced over 10 years ago) ALL because she said she (again) wanted my attention? I don't want her there. Is it terrible of me to exclude her?