Leela - posted on 11/23/2013 ( 7 moms have responded )
Long story short my ex started a relationship with his gf 4 months ago. She has 3 kids including a baby and left her husband to be with my ex. She's going through a divorce and my ex has said that she's having a hard time with that. i asked him to meet/ talk to her and he said she's going through a lot and gave me a cell no thats never worked. My ex wants my son to go on a beach vacation with her and her family (her parents etc), none of whom I know. I've said I'm not comfortable since I don't know her and frankly my ex can be quite flaky. My son seems fine with her but he's never been away on these types of trips. Plus, they'll all be sharing a room (my ex, gf, son and her kids. her daughter is 9 and i think thats crazy, but thats just me.)Of course this is causing tension. Any thoughts?