Should I let my husband hang out with a female friend??ADVICE

Kristie - posted on 01/09/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )

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HELP PLEASE. I am 22 weeks pregnant with twins and my husband is currently in another country, though were working on getting him here. Yesterday he told me that an old friend(girl) had contacted him saying that she will be visitng his country(she was an exchange student from Germany)for 10 days and wants to visit him at his house( he lives with his mom,) He asked me if it was ok for her to visit him, and said his mom knows her and will be home too. I am sure that he will not cheat and may have no feelings for her but I believe that if your married and your wife is in another country, he shoudn't be hanging out with a female. What should I do????. If I tell him not to hang out with her he woudn't..

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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 01/09/2013

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Well, I'd say that he was pretty up front with you, but it's entirely up to you.

Just remember though, if you ever run into an old male friend of your own, and he wants to visit, whatever restrictions you put on your husband will need to be applied to yourself.

I've never had a problem with my husband's female friends. As long as they respect the fact that he's married, and don't push the limits, I'm fine with that. And, if they DO push the limits, or act in any way inappropriately, they are asked to leave my home, and are not welcome back. There is only one woman in 23 years that has not been welcome back into my home.

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Kristie - posted on 01/09/2013

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yea your right about the equal restrictions. I guess since its a one time thing and he was honest, I shouldnt be against it.
thank you

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