Annemarie - posted on 10/13/2011 ( 8 moms have responded )
My husband and I just had our 1st anniversary and have started talking babies. I have an almost 8 year old girl from a previous relatonship but she considers my husband her dad. He has been in her life since she was 3 1/2. He is an awesome dad. I am not pregnant at the moment but would love to be but I am a little hesitant. If we have a boy, my husband wants to name him after him. This would be the 4th. The problem is that I really don't like his name! I mean the baby would have his last name, boy or girl. I would even let him pick the middle name and we could compromise on the first name. His name is rather old fashioned sounding to me and am thinking ahead to when he would be in school and could end up getting teased for it. Myh husband got teased in school for it and its nothing new that bullying is reaching an all time high in schools.
I feel like this could be for nothing since I could easily have a girl or, have trouble conceiving a second at all. It just has been on my mind a lot and it makes me hesitant to really start trying. Any ideas??