should I meet my childs fathers girlfriend?

Suzanne - posted on 07/08/2012 ( 5 moms have responded )

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my ex has been going out with his girlfriend fir 2 and half years, me and my daughter found out by accident 1 year ago. She is only just feeling confident enough to meet her but my doesn't understand why I should meet her. I think I should know who will be caring for my daughter, she is only 8, and due to his previous lies I find it hard to trust him. I never deny access and he is now moving in with her, so I think I should know who she is. He should have shown me some respect and told me at the beginning else we wouldn't be in this mess.

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Alisha - posted on 07/10/2012

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Yes I would meet her. I'm not sure of your whole situation, but if the opportunity presents itself don't hide from her.

Suzanne - posted on 07/08/2012

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Thanks Suzanne. :-D. Glad it's not just me who thinks this way. I will continue to ask to meet her until I do. my child is the most precious thing in the world to me and I wouldn't hand her anybody I dont know. You have confirmed what I think is right. :-) x

Suzanne - posted on 07/08/2012

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Hi Suzanne (We have the same name :P),

OF COURSE YOU SHOULD MEET HER! If I were you, I'd be pissed to know that my ex didn't understand why I should meet her. If she is going to be caring for your child, like you said, then you should know what kind of person she is. You have to make sure your child is safe so I can understand your concern. Personally, I wouldn't allow my child to spend time with this person until I met her.

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